स्तनको स्पर्शले महिलाहरुमा यौन आनन्द प्राप्त हुन्छ । अर्थात् महिलाहरुको यौन उत्तेजनामा योनी जति संवेदनशील हुन्छ स्तनको टुप्पो पनि त्यस भन्दा कम हुँदैन । हुनत यो यथार्थ जान्ने र भोग्नेहरुले थाहा पाएकै कुरा हो । तर किन यस्तो हुन्छ भन्ने कुरा भने हालै मात्र वैज्ञानिकहरुले पत्ता लगाएका छन् ।
अमेरिकाको रट्जर्स विश्वविद्यालयका अनुसन्धान कर्ताहरुले गरको अध्ययनले महिलाहरुको स्तनको टुप्पो र योनीमा हुने समान यौन संवेदनशीलताको कारण यी दुइ अंगबाट प्रसार हुने संवेदना मस्तिष्कको एउटै भागले ग्रहण गर्नु हो।
योनी र भग्निशिखाको स्पर्शका बेला उत्पन्न हुने उत्तेजनालाई मस्तिष्कको जुन भागले ग्रहण गर्छ स्तनको टुप्पोको स्पर्शका बेला उत्पन्न हुने उत्तेजनालाई पनि सोही भागले ग्रहण गर्ने गर्छ ।
त्यसैले केही महिलाहरु स्तनको स्पर्श वा सुम्सुम्याइबाटै चरम आनन्द प्राप्त गर्न सक्ने अनुसन्धानकर्ताहरुको भनाइ छ अर्थात् स्तनमा हुने यहीँ संवेदनाको संचार र स्नायु सम्बन्धका कारण स्तनको भरपूर स्पर्शले मात्र पनि महिलाले चरम आनन्द प्राप्त गर्न सक्छिन् र उनलाई योनी र लिंगको मिलन आवश्यक पर्दैन ।
आफ्नो अनुसन्धानका क्रममा अनुसनधानकर्ताहरुले २३ देखि ५६ वर्ष सम्मका ११ जना महिलालाई उनीहरुको योनी र स्तनलाई सुम्सुम्याउन अह्राएका थिए ।यसरी सिर्जना हुने उत्तेजनाका बेला उनीहरुको मस्तिष्कमा हुने परिवर्तनको अध्ययन गर्न मस्तिष्कलाई ब्रेन स्क्यानर भित्र राखिएको थियो ।
त्यसक्रममा प्राप्त तस्वीरहरुले योनी र स्तन दुबैबाट प्रवाह हुने उत्तेजना स्नायु हुँदै मस्तिष्कको क्लस्टर अफ ग्रेप्स भन्ने ठाउँमा गएको पाइयो । पुरुषमा पनि लिंगबाट प्रवाहित हुने उत्तेजना सोही भागले ग्रहण गर्ने गर्छ ।यसरि समाउद बढी भन्दा बढी आनन्द आउछ ।
Sure, you may feel like you're an expert at kissing a woman or in holding her hand — but how do you truly caress her? Caressing a woman is a way to show her how much you love her, and it doesn't have to be sexual. You have to know how to be gentle and thorough at the same time, and how to make all parts of a woman's body feel loved. The most important thing to do is to make sure she's comfortable with it — after that, you just have to give her the attention and affection she wants and needs.
Caressing Her Face and Neck
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Caress her lips with yours. When you lean in for a kiss, you shouldn't try to plant your lips on hers and ram your tongue in her mouth. Instead, be gentle and take things slowly, especially at first. You should move in to give her a soft kiss and then pause to caress her lips with yours by holding the kiss for a few seconds. You can caress the top lip and then the bottom lip, showing her that kisses really matter to you.
Too many men look at kissing as a move that just leads to something else. You should treat kissing like it's a unique pleasure instead of making her think that all you want is more.
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Caress the sides of her face with your hands while you're kissing. As you kiss the woman, hold her face with one or more of your hands. Don't grab her face at once, but slowly ease into this gesture and make it feel natural. Then, gently place a hand on the side of her face and stroke her cheek, her ear, her hair, and the side of her face along the jawline. This will make her feel loved and will even bring its own pleasure.
You shouldn't try kissing this way every single time. Instead, surprise her with this intimate gesture when the moment feels right.
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Caress her ears. While you're kissing, you should try to gently touch her earlobes, the sides of her ear, and the area behind her ears. Do this slowly and gently, as you're cupping her face. You can slide your hand under her hair, and stroke her ear as you continue to kiss. A woman's earlobes don't get nearly enough attention, and most women love this.
If you're already intimate, you can also brush your lips along her ears — that will drive her wild.
This is almost always a great move, but make sure you check her expression to see how she likes having her ears touched. Some women's ears are so sensitive that they prefer that you don't touch them.
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Caress her neck. The neck is another place where you can never touch a woman enough. Gently stroke the sides of her neck while you're talking, kissing, or just looking at each other. You can even toss her hair back so you can caress her neck a bit more, just by running the sides of your fingers up and down her neck, down to the base of her shoulder and all the way up to her earlobe.
If you're doing this while standing behind her, you can even blow a little bit of hot air onto her neck for added pleasure.
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Stroke her hair. Stroking her hair is another wonderful caressing gesture. You can gently stroke the back of her head and massage her scalp, run your fingers through strands of her hair playfully, or even brush the hair away from her eyes as you make eye contact, leading her to want something more. You can also stroke her hair as a way to also touch her cheeks, her earlobes, and her neck, and eventually to give her a kiss.
You can even tuck a strand of her hair behind her ear — this will give you an excuse to give her ears an extra caress.
अमेरिकाको रट्जर्स विश्वविद्यालयका अनुसन्धान कर्ताहरुले गरको अध्ययनले महिलाहरुको स्तनको टुप्पो र योनीमा हुने समान यौन संवेदनशीलताको कारण यी दुइ अंगबाट प्रसार हुने संवेदना मस्तिष्कको एउटै भागले ग्रहण गर्नु हो।
योनी र भग्निशिखाको स्पर्शका बेला उत्पन्न हुने उत्तेजनालाई मस्तिष्कको जुन भागले ग्रहण गर्छ स्तनको टुप्पोको स्पर्शका बेला उत्पन्न हुने उत्तेजनालाई पनि सोही भागले ग्रहण गर्ने गर्छ ।
त्यसैले केही महिलाहरु स्तनको स्पर्श वा सुम्सुम्याइबाटै चरम आनन्द प्राप्त गर्न सक्ने अनुसन्धानकर्ताहरुको भनाइ छ अर्थात् स्तनमा हुने यहीँ संवेदनाको संचार र स्नायु सम्बन्धका कारण स्तनको भरपूर स्पर्शले मात्र पनि महिलाले चरम आनन्द प्राप्त गर्न सक्छिन् र उनलाई योनी र लिंगको मिलन आवश्यक पर्दैन ।
आफ्नो अनुसन्धानका क्रममा अनुसनधानकर्ताहरुले २३ देखि ५६ वर्ष सम्मका ११ जना महिलालाई उनीहरुको योनी र स्तनलाई सुम्सुम्याउन अह्राएका थिए ।यसरी सिर्जना हुने उत्तेजनाका बेला उनीहरुको मस्तिष्कमा हुने परिवर्तनको अध्ययन गर्न मस्तिष्कलाई ब्रेन स्क्यानर भित्र राखिएको थियो ।
त्यसक्रममा प्राप्त तस्वीरहरुले योनी र स्तन दुबैबाट प्रवाह हुने उत्तेजना स्नायु हुँदै मस्तिष्कको क्लस्टर अफ ग्रेप्स भन्ने ठाउँमा गएको पाइयो । पुरुषमा पनि लिंगबाट प्रवाहित हुने उत्तेजना सोही भागले ग्रहण गर्ने गर्छ ।यसरि समाउद बढी भन्दा बढी आनन्द आउछ ।
Sure, you may feel like you're an expert at kissing a woman or in holding her hand — but how do you truly caress her? Caressing a woman is a way to show her how much you love her, and it doesn't have to be sexual. You have to know how to be gentle and thorough at the same time, and how to make all parts of a woman's body feel loved. The most important thing to do is to make sure she's comfortable with it — after that, you just have to give her the attention and affection she wants and needs.
Caressing Her Face and Neck
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Caress her lips with yours. When you lean in for a kiss, you shouldn't try to plant your lips on hers and ram your tongue in her mouth. Instead, be gentle and take things slowly, especially at first. You should move in to give her a soft kiss and then pause to caress her lips with yours by holding the kiss for a few seconds. You can caress the top lip and then the bottom lip, showing her that kisses really matter to you.
Too many men look at kissing as a move that just leads to something else. You should treat kissing like it's a unique pleasure instead of making her think that all you want is more.
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Caress the sides of her face with your hands while you're kissing. As you kiss the woman, hold her face with one or more of your hands. Don't grab her face at once, but slowly ease into this gesture and make it feel natural. Then, gently place a hand on the side of her face and stroke her cheek, her ear, her hair, and the side of her face along the jawline. This will make her feel loved and will even bring its own pleasure.
You shouldn't try kissing this way every single time. Instead, surprise her with this intimate gesture when the moment feels right.
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Caress her ears. While you're kissing, you should try to gently touch her earlobes, the sides of her ear, and the area behind her ears. Do this slowly and gently, as you're cupping her face. You can slide your hand under her hair, and stroke her ear as you continue to kiss. A woman's earlobes don't get nearly enough attention, and most women love this.
If you're already intimate, you can also brush your lips along her ears — that will drive her wild.
This is almost always a great move, but make sure you check her expression to see how she likes having her ears touched. Some women's ears are so sensitive that they prefer that you don't touch them.
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Caress her neck. The neck is another place where you can never touch a woman enough. Gently stroke the sides of her neck while you're talking, kissing, or just looking at each other. You can even toss her hair back so you can caress her neck a bit more, just by running the sides of your fingers up and down her neck, down to the base of her shoulder and all the way up to her earlobe.
If you're doing this while standing behind her, you can even blow a little bit of hot air onto her neck for added pleasure.
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Stroke her hair. Stroking her hair is another wonderful caressing gesture. You can gently stroke the back of her head and massage her scalp, run your fingers through strands of her hair playfully, or even brush the hair away from her eyes as you make eye contact, leading her to want something more. You can also stroke her hair as a way to also touch her cheeks, her earlobes, and her neck, and eventually to give her a kiss.
You can even tuck a strand of her hair behind her ear — this will give you an excuse to give her ears an extra caress.
